refactor: unify state update routines and remove selectedShow-dependent code

This refactors the existing state helpers (useCopy and
useUpdatableState) and unifies them to useUpdateBehaviour, useCopy,
useAPIObjectFieldCopy, useRelation and useRelationList. This eliminates
a lot of custom code in the show settings page and unifies the behaviour
of all input fields and save operations making the experience more
consistent and understandable.

It also enables us to show the save-in-progress state and errors that
occurred during updates for all fields along with customizable debounce
and proper v-model support.

We also got rid of the remaining uses of useSelectedShow. The show
settings page still made use of it despite using a route that
provides the relevant show that should be edited.